After having a lovely afternoon with one of pregnant friends she asked me did I think she was huge. She’s twelve weeks pregnant and is already showing but by no means is she huge, she just has a belly which considered there’s a little person in there then of course she’s going to have a belly. This is something that drove me bloody crazy the whole way through my pregnancy.
Why do people think it’s perfectly fine to tell you how h-uuu-ge you are. Seriously, why do they think it’s ok? We’ve got enough to deal with without someone telling you you’re ‘massive’. I didn’t even put on that much weight I was mainly bump but I’ve even been told “I bet you’re too scared to step on the scales you’re that big”. She’s been told she looks like she’s having twins and that is she’s this big now she’s going to be enormous by forty weeks. The poor girl was terrified! I tried to make her feel better but she has really took the comments to heart.
I just don’t understand why they think it’s ok, I would never even think about telling an overweight person that they’re huge, for one its just downright cruel and two, its nobodies business but theirs!
Have you ever experienced this & did you say anything back to them? I wish I had of
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